Chained Up

Back when I was in high school and was taking a psychology class, my teacher told us the story of an elephant. A cruel trainer owned this baby elephant. Every single day, this evil owner would chain this poor baby elephant to a huge tree. This tiny elephant would try with all her might to break free. She stomped and she kicked. She pushed and she pulled, but not matter how hard she tried, she was just too small and too weak to break free. So after weeks of failing to gain her freedom, she gave up and stopped trying. Fortunately, this baby got rescued by a kind and loving animal conservationist, who took care of her and allowed her to roam in freedom. The elephant grew up with her new owner but years later she found herself tied to another tree. By now, the elephant had grown big and strong enough to not only break the chains tying it to the tree, but to literally uproot the tree she was tied to. However, the elephant didn’t even attempt to break free because she remembered how she was unable to break free as a baby. Though she was capable of breaking through the chains and regaining her freedom, she was too bound by memories of past defeat to realize her own power.

Of course, this story my teacher told me, easily helped me remember and understand the concept of learned helplessness, but it also helped me see a spiritual issue that so many of us often struggle with. So many times, we’re just like that elephant. At one time, before we came to Christ and committed our lives to Him, we were much like that baby elephant. We belonged to a cruel and evil master. We were under the rule and influence of the enemy. Just like that elephant, we were far too small and weak to break free from the chains that the enemy used to keep us bound. While the chains for the elephant were physical, our chains were spiritual, emotional and mental. Chains of sin, shame, fear, depression, anxiety and hurt held us captive and we were powerless to their uncanny ability to hold us back in life. Since we’ve come to Christ, though, we’ve grown stronger and bigger in incredible ways and He has endowed us with the ability to break free from every single chain that’s had us bound. But just like that elephant, we’re sometimes so haunted by how powerless we were that we fail to realize just how powerful we are now in Christ.

So I share that story to share this message: Break free! You are not who you used to be! You are not weak! You are not helpless! You might be facing some of the same obstacles you faced before you got saved and they may have you feeling tied down like before. Just know that the Heavenly Father who, in all His lovingkindness, rescued you from your chains before has let you be chained up again, not to scare you or remind of your past weakness and failures. He’s allowed you be tied up again to show you just how big and powerful you’ve become in Him. He wants you to see the work that He’s done in you and He wants you to exercise this new strength He’s placed inside of you.

Now don’t get me wrong, there is absolutely nothing wrong with praying and seeking Him when you feel weak and helpless. But if you’ve prayed in hopes that the Father would come and break you free from what’s holding you back, and you seem to be getting no reply, it’s possibly because He’s trying to show you that He doesn’t need to rescue you. He’s fed you His strength through His Word and nurtured you with His love up until now so you could grow to the point to break through the chains yourself. He already answered the prayers that you’re praying now, in advance, because He’s been prepping you and building you up so you could break free since the day He rescued you. He wants you to see that the strength that He gives is the most powerful force imaginable. It’s stronger than your old addictions, bad habits, sins, or problems. He wants you to know for yourself that the strength that He gives you is so mighty it can overcome all the things that used to overcome you. Sure, He could jump in and rescue you again, but this time He wants you to walk confidently in the new strength He’s given you and break those chains off yourself. You’re already free because you belong to Him now. All you have to do is walk boldly and beautifully in the power and strength that He’s endowed you with.

The story of the elephant that my psych teacher told me ended with her not realizing that she could break free when she wanted to. However, our story doesn’t have to end the same way. Right now, you may feel like that elephant, bound by the chains you couldn’t shake off before you came to Christ. You may not have been able to shake those chains off before, but you can certainly shake them off now. You are more than a conqueror and you most certainly can do any and everything through Christ who strengthens you! Walk confidently in the new strength you’ve been given through your relationship with Christ and know that your chains will be broken the moment you realize you can break free.

…But God

...But God

Jacob was a liar.
Noah was a drunk.
David was a murderer.
Rahab was a prostitute.
Elijah was suicidal.
But God!

Birthing Pains

Birthing Pains

Every mother knows when she starts feeling contractions her baby is on the way. She knows it’s time to push and endure the pain so she give birth to her baby.

When you go through pain in your life, know that it’s because something incredible is on the way. Push through and endure the pain so you can give birth to your blessing.

Dear Love: Healing from Pain

Dear Love,

Healing can’t come until you decide to let go of the pain. I know you want to move on from the past but you’re still holding on to all those painful memories. You keep saying you’re ready to move on but you keep going back to the places and people that cause you the most pain. You say you don’t want to end up bitter and broken, yet you’re unwilling to forgive. Unfortunately, love, you can’t have your cake and eat it too, on this one. If you want to claim your healing, you’ve got to consciously let go of everything that keeps re-injuring you.



Bloom Where You Are Planted

Bloom Where You Are Planted

You don’t need a particular job, position or person vouching for you to do what you’re meant to do. When God is ready to use you He will start using you wherever you’re currently at. Stop waiting for the “perfect” job or opportunity to come your way to start succeeding. Bloom where you’re at right now and let God handle the rest.